Empowering resources and practical tools for managing chronic illness, energy, and daily routines. Thrive with accessible support tailored for spoonies.

A chronic illness resource hub grounded in emotional clarity, sustainable pacing, and accessible strategies for daily living.

This is a calm, practical space for spoonies who want steady support, realistic tools, and guidance that actually fits the way their body and energy move through the world.

Hi, I’m April Smith –

I’m a queer and neurodivergent chronic illness writer creating grounded, realistic support for life with limited energy.


Here you’ll find gentle encouragement, practical tools, and low-pressure strategies for navigating daily life with chronic illness.

April Smith is the voice behind The Thriving Spoonie—a resource hub for spoonies navigating daily life with chronic illness. With a practical, no-fluff approach to energy management, pacing, and self-advocacy, April shares real-life tools and encouragement to help you adapt and thrive—on your terms. (alt text: Portrait of April Smith, a smiling white person with short brown hair and green eyes, wearing a denim shirt, set against a light green background with a teal circle frame.)

Featured Guides

The Emotional Toll of Unpredictable Energy (And How I Stopped Blaming Myself)

A compassionate look at energy swings, self-blame, and the emotional side of pacing.

What Slowing Down for the Holidays Really Looks Like With Chronic Illness

A clear, honest look at rest, reality, and seasonal expectations.

How to Let Go of Guilt and Embrace Support with Chronic Illness

A grounding exploration of guilt, internalized expectations, and learning to accept help without shame.

How to Let Go of Guilt and Embrace Support with Chronic Illness

A practical guide to creating routines that adjust with your symptoms, support your limited energy, and actually work in real life.

What Readers Are Saying

This post arrived right on time. Gratitudes and affirmations have never clicked for me. I feel like I have permission to put that journal down. Not that I needed permission, but the message coming from someone else validates my experience with this practice.

Lindsay

Thanks for these. Many of these hit home for me – 20+ years with chronic pain. Some days are great and I can live my life with relative normalcy, and other days I find getting out of bed, dressed and down the stairs to be an Olympic event. My biggest hurdle is the judgement of others, so many of these quotes hit the proverbial nail on the head. Thanks for sharing and may you find peace in your days.

Tracey

Start Here: Your Spoonie Essentials

Real Stories From a Chronic Illness Blog You Can Trust

When you’re managing chronic illness, it helps to know you’re not alone. On the blog, I share honest stories from my own journey along with practical tips for living well. Whether you’re looking for pacing strategies, self-care ideas, or encouragement on tough days, you’ll find it here.

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Practical Resources for Life With Chronic Illness

Living with chronic illness means navigating energy limits, unpredictable symptoms, and daily challenges most people never see. That’s why I’ve created free resources designed specifically for spoonies. From energy-saving strategies to daily setup checklists, these tools are here to help you feel more supported and in control.

Tools to Help You Manage Daily Life

Sometimes free resources aren’t enough — you want something deeper, more structured, and ready to use every day. That’s why I created my Complete Guide to Daily Chronic Illness Management. It’s a practical workbook designed to help spoonies manage energy, plan realistically, and move beyond survival mode with tools that actually work.

What’s New on the Blog

People Pleasing and Chronic Illness: What It Costs Your Energy and How I Started Letting Go

People pleasing and chronic illness often overlap in quiet, exhausting ways. This reflective post explores how people pleasing drains energy, contributes to flares, and shapes daily life when you’re trying to keep up with expectations that don’t account for limited capacity—and what began to shift when I started letting go.

Burnout With Chronic Illness: Why It Isn’t a Phase

Burnout with chronic illness isn’t a temporary phase. It’s often a pattern shaped by limited energy, ongoing demands, and systems that weren’t built for fluctuating capacity. This post explores why burnout happens for spoonies and what actually helps reduce it in a sustainable, realistic way.

A Better Alternative to “Catching Up” When You Have Chronic Illness

Catch-up days often do more harm than good with chronic illness. Learn a more sustainable alternative built around consistency, flexibility, and realistic planning.

Why Self-Compassion Feels Out of Reach With Chronic Illness

Self-compassion with chronic illness is often treated as something you need to practice harder or get better at. But for many people, kindness feels out of reach because survival patterns, pressure to stay functional, and internalized ableism are still running the show. This post explains why self-compassion can feel inaccessible, why that struggle makes sense in context, and what changes when understanding comes before gentleness.

Post-Holiday Fatigue With Chronic Illness: Why You Feel Wiped Out

Post-holiday fatigue with chronic illness often shows up after the busy season ends. This post explains why exhaustion and emotional heaviness can deepen once things slow down—and how understanding the “why” can reduce fear and self-blame.

If you want more support, here’s something helpful that fits naturally with what you’ve just explored.